Clearing out the clutter and making new space will help you on your journey of looking for answers inside of yourself instead of looking outside for them. You don't need to hang onto everything that comes to you. Throw junk mail away immediately. Don't clip a coupon unless you intend on using it that day. Sort through your paperwork one time only, dealing with each piece as you put your hands on it until the task for it is completed.
Clean out your junk drawer. You'll find you don't even know why you saved half of the stuff in there anyhow. And you know in your heart that the magazine or clippings you saved because you are going to do that project one day will never materialize. In this day of technology everything we could possibly want to know about is on the internet and available at the click of a mouse.
Creating space will make you feel so much better emotionally and physically. You will feel the energy start to flow through you again. Your spirits will be higher and your mood euphoric.
Pick something you've been meaning to clear out or organize and spend the upcoming week tackling that. Now really clear it out. Throw away the year's worth of magazines you have been saving. Organize the bookmarks in your Internet Explorer. Thoroughly sort through your clothes and shoes and bag and donate them to a charity. Throw it out, when in doubt. It's liberating.
When you have finished your "clearing" take a few minutes to savor how you feel. Pretty darn good, right! Feel better, happier, clearer and cleaner. Your vibrations are running high and you are attracting more of the same good things.
Turn "decluttering" into a habit and do this exercise at least once a month. More often if needed. You will always feel so much better for having done this. Your life will be free of clutter, your mood will be lighter, your energy levels will be increased, and you will feel energized.
Draw the light to you, not away from you.
Sharon
www.perfecttravel.us
www.perfectproperties.com
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Monday, October 29, 2007
When You Can See What's Coming..
When you can see what is coming, you have a vision. It's anticipating what the future trends will be and being proactive so you are in a position to be at the right place at the right time.
Having a vision is not something you have to go looking for. It will find you. And when it does you would be wise to be prepared for it. You don't have to necessarily be the one to implement your vision. You can delegate the "work" to others and be the visionary of the pack. Your vision gives you a starting point from which to have laser sharp focus for your talents.
Keep moving forward even if you discover your vision is shared by others. It's still your vision. Bring it to fruition no matter how long it takes.
Locate other visionaries and associate with them. Remember like attracts like. By hanging around with people like yourself you will learn new skills and ways of thinking that will enhance your own gift.
Currently the largest targeted generation are the Baby Boomers - 10 million of them in the U.S. alone. A demanding generation of people who have been largely accustomed to getting everything they want. What are they going to want to do more of when they retire? I know for fact they will want to travel more. It's a $1.3 trillion dollar industry in the United States already. That's what prompted me to buy my online travel business. That's my vision and I'm ready for the explosion of business that's already started.
What is your vision? What can you do to put yourself in a position to help others and generate an ongoing income for yourself effortlessly?
If you are reading this blog, then you are an open-minded individual who keeps their options open. Kudos to you. Get out there and look for your vision. Remember that You are seperate from your Vision and if your vision becomes a Cause then the two have collided. The vision is now a need and not a healthy place to work from. Keep your vision seperate. Keep yourself seperate. Let it grow and evolve and don't become fixated on it.
Stay steady on your course and we will see YOU at the Top!
Sharon
http://www.perfecttravelsite.com/
Having a vision is not something you have to go looking for. It will find you. And when it does you would be wise to be prepared for it. You don't have to necessarily be the one to implement your vision. You can delegate the "work" to others and be the visionary of the pack. Your vision gives you a starting point from which to have laser sharp focus for your talents.
Keep moving forward even if you discover your vision is shared by others. It's still your vision. Bring it to fruition no matter how long it takes.
Locate other visionaries and associate with them. Remember like attracts like. By hanging around with people like yourself you will learn new skills and ways of thinking that will enhance your own gift.
Currently the largest targeted generation are the Baby Boomers - 10 million of them in the U.S. alone. A demanding generation of people who have been largely accustomed to getting everything they want. What are they going to want to do more of when they retire? I know for fact they will want to travel more. It's a $1.3 trillion dollar industry in the United States already. That's what prompted me to buy my online travel business. That's my vision and I'm ready for the explosion of business that's already started.
What is your vision? What can you do to put yourself in a position to help others and generate an ongoing income for yourself effortlessly?
If you are reading this blog, then you are an open-minded individual who keeps their options open. Kudos to you. Get out there and look for your vision. Remember that You are seperate from your Vision and if your vision becomes a Cause then the two have collided. The vision is now a need and not a healthy place to work from. Keep your vision seperate. Keep yourself seperate. Let it grow and evolve and don't become fixated on it.
Stay steady on your course and we will see YOU at the Top!
Sharon
http://www.perfecttravelsite.com/
Sunday, October 28, 2007
Just Tell The Truth
Excerpt from The Best of Bits and Pieces - - Everyone needs recognition for his accomplishments, and few people make it known quite as clearly as the little boy who said to his father: "Let's play darts. I'll throw and you say 'Wonderful!'"
It is possible to tell the truth to another person in a manner that will empower them. When you phrase things with a positive twist people will be more attracted to you. Care enough about other people so that when you have a need to correct them, you do it in a way that would build the other person up rather than destroy them. It isn't necessary nor beneficial to sugar coat the what you have to say, the value is in being unconditionally constructive. Literally take a few minutes to think before you speak so you are not reacting to the situation. Rather you will be acting after careful thought and the difference will be 180 degrees.
If a person has demonstrated a behavior that is less than pleasing to you, rather than berate, ridicule or crumble their spirit, think about what you would rather have had them do or say and convey that in a way that will build them up. Begin your conversation with a positive statement about the person and lead into the desired behavior you want them to demonstrate. You are being truthful in a way that is encouraging vs. demoralizing. Look for the good in everyone. Use those qualities to your advantage by including them in a sincere manner in your conversation with that person. You will both feel better.
Master this skill your journey in this life will be a more pleasant one. :)
Sharon
http://www.perfecttravel.us/
http://www.perfectproperties.com/
It is possible to tell the truth to another person in a manner that will empower them. When you phrase things with a positive twist people will be more attracted to you. Care enough about other people so that when you have a need to correct them, you do it in a way that would build the other person up rather than destroy them. It isn't necessary nor beneficial to sugar coat the what you have to say, the value is in being unconditionally constructive. Literally take a few minutes to think before you speak so you are not reacting to the situation. Rather you will be acting after careful thought and the difference will be 180 degrees.
If a person has demonstrated a behavior that is less than pleasing to you, rather than berate, ridicule or crumble their spirit, think about what you would rather have had them do or say and convey that in a way that will build them up. Begin your conversation with a positive statement about the person and lead into the desired behavior you want them to demonstrate. You are being truthful in a way that is encouraging vs. demoralizing. Look for the good in everyone. Use those qualities to your advantage by including them in a sincere manner in your conversation with that person. You will both feel better.
Master this skill your journey in this life will be a more pleasant one. :)
Sharon
http://www.perfecttravel.us/
http://www.perfectproperties.com/
Saturday, October 27, 2007
Creative Power of Thought
Because our power to think is unlimited we are unlimited.
As children we use our imaginations for everything. We know no boundaries and have no limitations. At some point in our childhood an adult begins to punish us for our actions and we are taught the meaning of "no" repeatedly. That sets off a trend to limit us in what we think and do because we are taught that most of the time the consequences of being a free spirit will cause a punishment to be implemented.
Today we live in a society that encourages us to "think out of the box". A contradiction to what we learned growing up! What a mixed message we are receiving.
We know that if we live in the past we cannot move into the future. So we have to embrace the concept of becoming once again a free thinking spirit in order to achieve or obtain the things which we most desire.
It may be necessary to seek professional help to undo years of damage from being told to limit your thinking. You can try EFT, an effective way of quickly tapping into your emotional boundaries and releasing pent up and limiting feelings. This will bring a freedom and peace unlike anything you've had for a very long time.
Like the AA practices you must become aware of people, places and things that contribute to keeping you locked into a cycle of negative thoughts and behaviors. If necessary weed out the negative people from your life and begin to migrate toward and surround yourself with people who are also working to have higher vibrational thinking. Draw into your social circle through your own powerful thoughts other like minded people. You will be amazed at the transformation.
If you haven't already started a Vision Board you are encouraged to do so now. Put on that board all of the things you Desire. Focus on these things every day. Spend a few minutes visualizing them. How they feel, look, smell. Make them tangible in your mind. You may also find as time goes on that things you put on the board no longer carry the same importance as before and you will change them for something else.
Whatever you do keep your thoughts positive, repel any negative thoughts immediately. Exercise. Stretch, shake your arms and hands, touch your toes. Do something different and fun. Blast your favorite songs. Live life large. Enjoy what you have now and keep in your mind always the things that you want to draw into your life. They will come.
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
As children we use our imaginations for everything. We know no boundaries and have no limitations. At some point in our childhood an adult begins to punish us for our actions and we are taught the meaning of "no" repeatedly. That sets off a trend to limit us in what we think and do because we are taught that most of the time the consequences of being a free spirit will cause a punishment to be implemented.
Today we live in a society that encourages us to "think out of the box". A contradiction to what we learned growing up! What a mixed message we are receiving.
We know that if we live in the past we cannot move into the future. So we have to embrace the concept of becoming once again a free thinking spirit in order to achieve or obtain the things which we most desire.
It may be necessary to seek professional help to undo years of damage from being told to limit your thinking. You can try EFT, an effective way of quickly tapping into your emotional boundaries and releasing pent up and limiting feelings. This will bring a freedom and peace unlike anything you've had for a very long time.
Like the AA practices you must become aware of people, places and things that contribute to keeping you locked into a cycle of negative thoughts and behaviors. If necessary weed out the negative people from your life and begin to migrate toward and surround yourself with people who are also working to have higher vibrational thinking. Draw into your social circle through your own powerful thoughts other like minded people. You will be amazed at the transformation.
If you haven't already started a Vision Board you are encouraged to do so now. Put on that board all of the things you Desire. Focus on these things every day. Spend a few minutes visualizing them. How they feel, look, smell. Make them tangible in your mind. You may also find as time goes on that things you put on the board no longer carry the same importance as before and you will change them for something else.
Whatever you do keep your thoughts positive, repel any negative thoughts immediately. Exercise. Stretch, shake your arms and hands, touch your toes. Do something different and fun. Blast your favorite songs. Live life large. Enjoy what you have now and keep in your mind always the things that you want to draw into your life. They will come.
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Respect Yourself
When you allow the opinion of other people to have greater value than your own opinion of yourself you lose your self-respect. If you lack self-respect then you are going against what God intended for you. You will feel miserable about yourself and have feelings of anger, anxiety and a host of other negative feelings that you will be carrying about daily. Your vibration will be a low frequency and you will be attracting more of the same negative emotions to yourself.
Recall yesterday I spoke about love conquering all. Love is the ultimate in producing the highest vibration from which to be operating daily to attract all good things to yourself.
If you paint a miserable picture of yourself because of a lack of self-respect then others will react in the same negative way and thus perpetuate the cycle. Often times this lack of self-respect stems from early childhood and countless times of being put down by some unthinking parent, teacher or friends or a combination of all.
Make a conscious effort to forgive those that hurt you and send them light and love. If you have to write down the name of every single person all the way back to nursery school who ever caused you hurt and then say out loud to each one of those names that you forgive them and release them, in order to face the feelings and let them go and gain your sense of worth and value and self-respect back, then do so. It will be liberating beyond anything you can imagine.
Train yourself to see the good in everyone. This will take time to get to the point where you no longer pass judgement on others. Take the plank out of your own eye, before you look at the splinter in another's eye. As you move forward in a new and loving way with thoughts that are getting purer and less jaded you will enjoy greater power of the laws of attraction at work drawing to you the things you deserve. You will find your values and desires and wants changing as the new you begins to emerge.
May your intentions become your realities.
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
Recall yesterday I spoke about love conquering all. Love is the ultimate in producing the highest vibration from which to be operating daily to attract all good things to yourself.
If you paint a miserable picture of yourself because of a lack of self-respect then others will react in the same negative way and thus perpetuate the cycle. Often times this lack of self-respect stems from early childhood and countless times of being put down by some unthinking parent, teacher or friends or a combination of all.
Make a conscious effort to forgive those that hurt you and send them light and love. If you have to write down the name of every single person all the way back to nursery school who ever caused you hurt and then say out loud to each one of those names that you forgive them and release them, in order to face the feelings and let them go and gain your sense of worth and value and self-respect back, then do so. It will be liberating beyond anything you can imagine.
Train yourself to see the good in everyone. This will take time to get to the point where you no longer pass judgement on others. Take the plank out of your own eye, before you look at the splinter in another's eye. As you move forward in a new and loving way with thoughts that are getting purer and less jaded you will enjoy greater power of the laws of attraction at work drawing to you the things you deserve. You will find your values and desires and wants changing as the new you begins to emerge.
May your intentions become your realities.
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Love Heals
The most profound and important universal law is Love. Of yourself and others. Not just any love, rather pure, unconditional love. Love does make everything better. If you are afraid, love can take away the fear. If you are sad, love makes the sadness go away. If you are angry, love can take the anger away. Love really does conquer all.
People who have been diagnosed with life threatening illnesses are completely cured through love and laughter in their lives.
Love accepts everything and everyone just the way they are. When you are in this mindset you will not find fault nor will your ego get in the way. If you learn to accept people for who they are at the present time and love them exactly as they are you will feel at peace within yourself. Stop judging others or trying to change them. The only person we can change is ourself. When you turn your focus onto yourself and learn to like, love and accept yourself just the way you are, after all no one is perfect or ever will be, the more you will begin to see other people in the same light.
Make a written list of all of the things that are good about you. Don't stop writing until you are physically drained. Read every item you wrote out loud. Post it somewhere you can see it and read it every day. Accept all of these good things about yourself and you will increase your ability to change. When you start to change, the people around you will also change.
Keep in mind that those around us do not have to change unless they want to. So stop trying to change them. If you are really frustrated by someone's behavior, weed them out of your life. Why would you want to keep subjecting yourself to bad behavior? Send them light and love and move on.
Life is good. Keep it that way.
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
People who have been diagnosed with life threatening illnesses are completely cured through love and laughter in their lives.
Love accepts everything and everyone just the way they are. When you are in this mindset you will not find fault nor will your ego get in the way. If you learn to accept people for who they are at the present time and love them exactly as they are you will feel at peace within yourself. Stop judging others or trying to change them. The only person we can change is ourself. When you turn your focus onto yourself and learn to like, love and accept yourself just the way you are, after all no one is perfect or ever will be, the more you will begin to see other people in the same light.
Make a written list of all of the things that are good about you. Don't stop writing until you are physically drained. Read every item you wrote out loud. Post it somewhere you can see it and read it every day. Accept all of these good things about yourself and you will increase your ability to change. When you start to change, the people around you will also change.
Keep in mind that those around us do not have to change unless they want to. So stop trying to change them. If you are really frustrated by someone's behavior, weed them out of your life. Why would you want to keep subjecting yourself to bad behavior? Send them light and love and move on.
Life is good. Keep it that way.
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
Monday, October 22, 2007
Teach People How To Please You
Take the guesswork out of what pleases you from others. Let them know what makes you happy. Let them also know what you need from them. There's a difference. You are not trying to control anyone here. You simply know what you want or need and you convey that in a clear, concise way that allows the other person to accept or decline. This is a two-way process so set the expectation that you want to know the same information from the person with whom you are teaching this to.
When you take the time to show other people how to please you, you are taking responsibility for what you need versus making people guess or expecting them to read your mind.
If this is a new process for you the initial reaction of others may be discomfort, disbelief and they may feel you are being difficult or selfish. That's okay. So long as you stay tuned into their sensitivity and refrain from bullying tactics, they will adjust to the new you. They will even respect you for it and probably wish they could be the same way.
Teach others, show others, train others, tell others, inform others of your wants and needs.
You will begin to get what you wanted in the way you want it and feel totally great about it.
Sharon
http://www.perfectproperties.com/
http://www.perfecttravel.us/
When you take the time to show other people how to please you, you are taking responsibility for what you need versus making people guess or expecting them to read your mind.
If this is a new process for you the initial reaction of others may be discomfort, disbelief and they may feel you are being difficult or selfish. That's okay. So long as you stay tuned into their sensitivity and refrain from bullying tactics, they will adjust to the new you. They will even respect you for it and probably wish they could be the same way.
Teach others, show others, train others, tell others, inform others of your wants and needs.
You will begin to get what you wanted in the way you want it and feel totally great about it.
Sharon
http://www.perfectproperties.com/
http://www.perfecttravel.us/
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