When you allow the opinion of other people to have greater value than your own opinion of yourself you lose your self-respect. If you lack self-respect then you are going against what God intended for you. You will feel miserable about yourself and have feelings of anger, anxiety and a host of other negative feelings that you will be carrying about daily. Your vibration will be a low frequency and you will be attracting more of the same negative emotions to yourself.
Recall yesterday I spoke about love conquering all. Love is the ultimate in producing the highest vibration from which to be operating daily to attract all good things to yourself.
If you paint a miserable picture of yourself because of a lack of self-respect then others will react in the same negative way and thus perpetuate the cycle. Often times this lack of self-respect stems from early childhood and countless times of being put down by some unthinking parent, teacher or friends or a combination of all.
Make a conscious effort to forgive those that hurt you and send them light and love. If you have to write down the name of every single person all the way back to nursery school who ever caused you hurt and then say out loud to each one of those names that you forgive them and release them, in order to face the feelings and let them go and gain your sense of worth and value and self-respect back, then do so. It will be liberating beyond anything you can imagine.
Train yourself to see the good in everyone. This will take time to get to the point where you no longer pass judgement on others. Take the plank out of your own eye, before you look at the splinter in another's eye. As you move forward in a new and loving way with thoughts that are getting purer and less jaded you will enjoy greater power of the laws of attraction at work drawing to you the things you deserve. You will find your values and desires and wants changing as the new you begins to emerge.
May your intentions become your realities.
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
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