Excerpt from The Best of Bits and Pieces - - Everyone needs recognition for his accomplishments, and few people make it known quite as clearly as the little boy who said to his father: "Let's play darts. I'll throw and you say 'Wonderful!'"
It is possible to tell the truth to another person in a manner that will empower them. When you phrase things with a positive twist people will be more attracted to you. Care enough about other people so that when you have a need to correct them, you do it in a way that would build the other person up rather than destroy them. It isn't necessary nor beneficial to sugar coat the what you have to say, the value is in being unconditionally constructive. Literally take a few minutes to think before you speak so you are not reacting to the situation. Rather you will be acting after careful thought and the difference will be 180 degrees.
If a person has demonstrated a behavior that is less than pleasing to you, rather than berate, ridicule or crumble their spirit, think about what you would rather have had them do or say and convey that in a way that will build them up. Begin your conversation with a positive statement about the person and lead into the desired behavior you want them to demonstrate. You are being truthful in a way that is encouraging vs. demoralizing. Look for the good in everyone. Use those qualities to your advantage by including them in a sincere manner in your conversation with that person. You will both feel better.
Master this skill your journey in this life will be a more pleasant one. :)
Sharon
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