When you allow the opinion of other people to have greater value than your own opinion of yourself you lose your self-respect. If you lack self-respect then you are going against what God intended for you. You will feel miserable about yourself and have feelings of anger, anxiety and a host of other negative feelings that you will be carrying about daily. Your vibration will be a low frequency and you will be attracting more of the same negative emotions to yourself.
Recall yesterday I spoke about love conquering all. Love is the ultimate in producing the highest vibration from which to be operating daily to attract all good things to yourself.
If you paint a miserable picture of yourself because of a lack of self-respect then others will react in the same negative way and thus perpetuate the cycle. Often times this lack of self-respect stems from early childhood and countless times of being put down by some unthinking parent, teacher or friends or a combination of all.
Make a conscious effort to forgive those that hurt you and send them light and love. If you have to write down the name of every single person all the way back to nursery school who ever caused you hurt and then say out loud to each one of those names that you forgive them and release them, in order to face the feelings and let them go and gain your sense of worth and value and self-respect back, then do so. It will be liberating beyond anything you can imagine.
Train yourself to see the good in everyone. This will take time to get to the point where you no longer pass judgement on others. Take the plank out of your own eye, before you look at the splinter in another's eye. As you move forward in a new and loving way with thoughts that are getting purer and less jaded you will enjoy greater power of the laws of attraction at work drawing to you the things you deserve. You will find your values and desires and wants changing as the new you begins to emerge.
May your intentions become your realities.
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Love Heals
The most profound and important universal law is Love. Of yourself and others. Not just any love, rather pure, unconditional love. Love does make everything better. If you are afraid, love can take away the fear. If you are sad, love makes the sadness go away. If you are angry, love can take the anger away. Love really does conquer all.
People who have been diagnosed with life threatening illnesses are completely cured through love and laughter in their lives.
Love accepts everything and everyone just the way they are. When you are in this mindset you will not find fault nor will your ego get in the way. If you learn to accept people for who they are at the present time and love them exactly as they are you will feel at peace within yourself. Stop judging others or trying to change them. The only person we can change is ourself. When you turn your focus onto yourself and learn to like, love and accept yourself just the way you are, after all no one is perfect or ever will be, the more you will begin to see other people in the same light.
Make a written list of all of the things that are good about you. Don't stop writing until you are physically drained. Read every item you wrote out loud. Post it somewhere you can see it and read it every day. Accept all of these good things about yourself and you will increase your ability to change. When you start to change, the people around you will also change.
Keep in mind that those around us do not have to change unless they want to. So stop trying to change them. If you are really frustrated by someone's behavior, weed them out of your life. Why would you want to keep subjecting yourself to bad behavior? Send them light and love and move on.
Life is good. Keep it that way.
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
People who have been diagnosed with life threatening illnesses are completely cured through love and laughter in their lives.
Love accepts everything and everyone just the way they are. When you are in this mindset you will not find fault nor will your ego get in the way. If you learn to accept people for who they are at the present time and love them exactly as they are you will feel at peace within yourself. Stop judging others or trying to change them. The only person we can change is ourself. When you turn your focus onto yourself and learn to like, love and accept yourself just the way you are, after all no one is perfect or ever will be, the more you will begin to see other people in the same light.
Make a written list of all of the things that are good about you. Don't stop writing until you are physically drained. Read every item you wrote out loud. Post it somewhere you can see it and read it every day. Accept all of these good things about yourself and you will increase your ability to change. When you start to change, the people around you will also change.
Keep in mind that those around us do not have to change unless they want to. So stop trying to change them. If you are really frustrated by someone's behavior, weed them out of your life. Why would you want to keep subjecting yourself to bad behavior? Send them light and love and move on.
Life is good. Keep it that way.
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
Monday, October 22, 2007
Teach People How To Please You
Take the guesswork out of what pleases you from others. Let them know what makes you happy. Let them also know what you need from them. There's a difference. You are not trying to control anyone here. You simply know what you want or need and you convey that in a clear, concise way that allows the other person to accept or decline. This is a two-way process so set the expectation that you want to know the same information from the person with whom you are teaching this to.
When you take the time to show other people how to please you, you are taking responsibility for what you need versus making people guess or expecting them to read your mind.
If this is a new process for you the initial reaction of others may be discomfort, disbelief and they may feel you are being difficult or selfish. That's okay. So long as you stay tuned into their sensitivity and refrain from bullying tactics, they will adjust to the new you. They will even respect you for it and probably wish they could be the same way.
Teach others, show others, train others, tell others, inform others of your wants and needs.
You will begin to get what you wanted in the way you want it and feel totally great about it.
Sharon
http://www.perfectproperties.com/
http://www.perfecttravel.us/
When you take the time to show other people how to please you, you are taking responsibility for what you need versus making people guess or expecting them to read your mind.
If this is a new process for you the initial reaction of others may be discomfort, disbelief and they may feel you are being difficult or selfish. That's okay. So long as you stay tuned into their sensitivity and refrain from bullying tactics, they will adjust to the new you. They will even respect you for it and probably wish they could be the same way.
Teach others, show others, train others, tell others, inform others of your wants and needs.
You will begin to get what you wanted in the way you want it and feel totally great about it.
Sharon
http://www.perfectproperties.com/
http://www.perfecttravel.us/
Sunday, October 21, 2007
Impact Yourself and You Impact Others
As you align yourself more and more with the universe and feel greater harmony you will see how you are impacting others. As you see the new qualities in you begin to emerge you will also notice those same qualities in others. A feeling of serenity will descend upon you like none you have experienced before.
If you begin to love others, you shall receive love in return. If you see beauty in others, they shall see only beauty in you. Whatever you see in others, good or bad, shall be equally returned to you. Remain conscious of your perceptions of the people you encounter and chase away any negative thoughts lest they be returned to you. Treat others with kindness, friendliness, and charm. No matter how frustrating a situation might be or how frazzled you might be feeling, slow down, change the channel on your thinking, sync up your vibrations and let the sizzle and charm surface to the top. It is up to YOU to change the way you think. There is absolute truth in the statement "Like attracts like."
Have you ever been around a person that you feel absolutely drained by the encounter because they are so negative? In the future rather than lower your vibration to match theirs, draw from them in conversation the things that they do want rather than listen to them complain about what they don't want or what's not right in their lives. When they talk about what they do want their vibration will rise and match yours. Thus the encounter will turn into a pleasant one.
If someone treats you unkindly or in a rude manner, wonder to yourself if something happened in their day to cause their unhappiness and become the guiding light to brighten their day with a kind word or action. It will make them feel good and it will make you feel good too.
Little random acts of kindness go a long way to making our world a brighter place to live. How many random acts of kindness can you do in each day. Practice looking for the opportunities to do so until it becomes second nature. You will become like a lighthouse for all others to see and be guided by.
Have an awesome day.
Sharon
http://www.perfectproperties.com/
http://www.perfecttravel.us/
If you begin to love others, you shall receive love in return. If you see beauty in others, they shall see only beauty in you. Whatever you see in others, good or bad, shall be equally returned to you. Remain conscious of your perceptions of the people you encounter and chase away any negative thoughts lest they be returned to you. Treat others with kindness, friendliness, and charm. No matter how frustrating a situation might be or how frazzled you might be feeling, slow down, change the channel on your thinking, sync up your vibrations and let the sizzle and charm surface to the top. It is up to YOU to change the way you think. There is absolute truth in the statement "Like attracts like."
Have you ever been around a person that you feel absolutely drained by the encounter because they are so negative? In the future rather than lower your vibration to match theirs, draw from them in conversation the things that they do want rather than listen to them complain about what they don't want or what's not right in their lives. When they talk about what they do want their vibration will rise and match yours. Thus the encounter will turn into a pleasant one.
If someone treats you unkindly or in a rude manner, wonder to yourself if something happened in their day to cause their unhappiness and become the guiding light to brighten their day with a kind word or action. It will make them feel good and it will make you feel good too.
Little random acts of kindness go a long way to making our world a brighter place to live. How many random acts of kindness can you do in each day. Practice looking for the opportunities to do so until it becomes second nature. You will become like a lighthouse for all others to see and be guided by.
Have an awesome day.
Sharon
http://www.perfectproperties.com/
http://www.perfecttravel.us/
Saturday, October 20, 2007
Fear and Love
All emotions stem from two factors - Fear or Love.
All of our negative feelings are generated from fear. All of our positive feelings are sparked by love. If we develop a habit of paying close attention to our thoughts, and initially we may have to do this minute by minute, then hour by hour, until we have the new habit so entrenched we automatically change our thinking, and consciously cancel out the negative thoughts by first acknowledging the fear by saying hello to it rather than pretending it doesn't exist. Then take a close look at the fear, invite it to come in and have a seat. Sounds silly however if you embrace every fear like this you will take away the hold it has on your life. You will be able to transfer that fear into feelings of love thus raising your natural vibration. Fear comes in the form of anger, resentment, seeking approval, hate, feeling rejected, guilt, and feeling burdened. Whichever one applies to you get to the core of it by tracing its roots to your early childhood and then asking out loud for help in releasing it. Do this over and over until the feeling is overcome.
You can use Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) to clear out "old baggage". Learn more about this on Dr. Carrington's website. http://www.masteringeft.com/ To say using this technique is liberating is an understatement. It's life changing.
Perfect practice makes perfect. Keep mindful of your thoughts and actions until you reach a pattern of loving thoughts at all times. Be lightning quick to dispel and repel all negativity from your life. You will find yourself feeling content, happy, joyful and loving all of the time. Your natural vibration will be at an all time high and all good things will be attracted to your life.
Sharon
http://www.perfectproperties.com/
http://www.perfecttravel.us/
All of our negative feelings are generated from fear. All of our positive feelings are sparked by love. If we develop a habit of paying close attention to our thoughts, and initially we may have to do this minute by minute, then hour by hour, until we have the new habit so entrenched we automatically change our thinking, and consciously cancel out the negative thoughts by first acknowledging the fear by saying hello to it rather than pretending it doesn't exist. Then take a close look at the fear, invite it to come in and have a seat. Sounds silly however if you embrace every fear like this you will take away the hold it has on your life. You will be able to transfer that fear into feelings of love thus raising your natural vibration. Fear comes in the form of anger, resentment, seeking approval, hate, feeling rejected, guilt, and feeling burdened. Whichever one applies to you get to the core of it by tracing its roots to your early childhood and then asking out loud for help in releasing it. Do this over and over until the feeling is overcome.
You can use Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) to clear out "old baggage". Learn more about this on Dr. Carrington's website. http://www.masteringeft.com/ To say using this technique is liberating is an understatement. It's life changing.
Perfect practice makes perfect. Keep mindful of your thoughts and actions until you reach a pattern of loving thoughts at all times. Be lightning quick to dispel and repel all negativity from your life. You will find yourself feeling content, happy, joyful and loving all of the time. Your natural vibration will be at an all time high and all good things will be attracted to your life.
Sharon
http://www.perfectproperties.com/
http://www.perfecttravel.us/
Friday, October 19, 2007
Synchonize Your Thinking and Your Feelings
Our thoughts and feelings have to be in complete harmony in order to effect the desired result.
When feelings and thoughts connect it creates our emotions which in turn creates a vibration. If we are thinking one thing and in our heart feel the opposite we generally will get what our heart feels. For example if you think you'd like to be a millionaire and in your heart you don't feel you really do anything to deserve that status, your thoughts will win out.
The bulk of our feelings are at a subconscious level and when we work toward and achieve getting in touch with our feelings we do so at the subconscious level. Our conscious thoughts operate in hope of something in the future or of something in our past. The subsconscious mind deals only in the present.
When we synchronize our thoughts and our feelings we create a vibration that yields peace of mind and delivers to us the things we desire.
Because of the conditioning we have been taught from childhood, for many this will take a concerted effort to reach the harmony of thoughts and feelings and maintain them to create the right vibrations. The end result is peace of mind and a more fullfilling life. You decide how you want to live your life..in a constant state of fluxuation or harmony?
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
When feelings and thoughts connect it creates our emotions which in turn creates a vibration. If we are thinking one thing and in our heart feel the opposite we generally will get what our heart feels. For example if you think you'd like to be a millionaire and in your heart you don't feel you really do anything to deserve that status, your thoughts will win out.
The bulk of our feelings are at a subconscious level and when we work toward and achieve getting in touch with our feelings we do so at the subconscious level. Our conscious thoughts operate in hope of something in the future or of something in our past. The subsconscious mind deals only in the present.
When we synchronize our thoughts and our feelings we create a vibration that yields peace of mind and delivers to us the things we desire.
Because of the conditioning we have been taught from childhood, for many this will take a concerted effort to reach the harmony of thoughts and feelings and maintain them to create the right vibrations. The end result is peace of mind and a more fullfilling life. You decide how you want to live your life..in a constant state of fluxuation or harmony?
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Your Feelings
The emotions you feel at any given time are a barometer of your universal energy and what you will be able to manifest into your life. Feelings of euphoria, elation, bliss, passion have a huge drawing power to bring to you the things you desire. Pay attention to your feelings throughout the day. If you want abundance you cannot have resistance or disbelief going on in your mind. You have to believe in yourself and focus on the things you do want rather than what you don't want. Keep the negative words out of your vocabulary. For example rather than saying, "don't forget to stop at the store" you might say "remember to stop at the store". Hear the difference? Feel the difference?
Focus on today and all of the things you can do to improve this day only. How can you make it a happier, fun filled day? What can you do that breaks the routine today? What spontaneous nice things can you do or say for someone else today? How can you raise your energy today?
If you concentrate on making today the best day ever and just living in the moment, everything else will fall into place and the things that you want from the universe will be drawn to you.
Think the thought, take the necessary action, and watch the attraction flow to you. :)
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
Focus on today and all of the things you can do to improve this day only. How can you make it a happier, fun filled day? What can you do that breaks the routine today? What spontaneous nice things can you do or say for someone else today? How can you raise your energy today?
If you concentrate on making today the best day ever and just living in the moment, everything else will fall into place and the things that you want from the universe will be drawn to you.
Think the thought, take the necessary action, and watch the attraction flow to you. :)
Sharon
www.perfectproperties.com
www.perfecttravel.us
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